Sometimes referred to as emotional intelligence, soft skills or “21st century skills,” these relationship-building skills are often listed as the No. 1 most valuable career skill in today’s workplaces. Regular SECD programming is associated with an 11 percent rise in standardized test scores and reductions in school dropout, violence, bullying, and classroom disruption within the classroom.
“As students return to a traditional school day, many are bringing more than just a backpack with them – they are bringing loss and anxiety,” said Maurice J. Elias, a professor of psychology at Rutgers University-New Brunswick and director of the Rutgers Social-Emotional and Character Development Lab. “We must recognize that the social and emotional needs of young people are a gateway to their academic success. If we think they’re going to sit and listen to our lessons when they’re still depressed, anxious, fearful or hopeless, that’s not happening.”
Elias, co-author of the forthcoming book, Morning Classroom Conversations, suggests several ways for how teachers and administrators can reduce stress, build relationships and create a welcoming classroom environment:
- Open the school day with a structured “Morning Classroom Conversation” to provide a safe space to practice critical and creative thinking, build active listening skills and learn to disagree respectfully. Elias’ book with Rutgers graduates Nina A. Murphy and Kellie A. McClain includes three years’ worth of conversation starters.
- Help students proactively learn how to reduce stress. “Mindful Moments”—where teachers lead a deep breathing technique—is a powerful stress reducer. The more routinely these moments are used, the more stress levels go down and students are open to learning. The end of the school day, or the end of a unit of study, can be a good time for reflection and discussion and help transition to the next unit.
- For middle and high school students, goal setting can be a helpful motivator. At the beginning of the school year, ask students to write down academic goals, social life, sports and exercise, healthy eating, family and community, hobbies and interests, screen time and long-term plans. The main point of setting goals is to help students take realistic steps to achieve them.
- Many educators find that using the SMART format—goals that are specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and timely—is practical and reasonable, and keeps students on track.
- Visual and performing arts can be powerful tools for students to explore self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision making. Building in time throughout the day to be intentional about self-expression can be the creative outlet needed to continue their day.
The Social Emotional Character Development (SECD) Lab at Rutgers University was founded in 1997 by Dr. Elias, and is a leader in the research and implementation of Social Emotional Learning and Character development skills. The SECD Lab has multiple ongoing projects to promote positive development in schools. These projects include Students Taking Action Together (STAT), Youth Nation, MOSAIC, SEL4US, the Academy for SEL in Schools, and District and school-wide implementation. For more information, please visit www.secdlab.org on Twitter @SECDLab, on Instagram @secd_lab, TikTok @secdlab.